One Julius Bokuru from Bayelsa State has advised men not to relocate to these countries: U.S, UK, Canada, Australia, France, and Holland with their wives stating that the listed countries give women too much power.
Noting that women will always abuse power.
See reactions that trailed his observations below:
One user named snipper said:
Same thing i have been saying but intoxicated men will never listen.
A user who choose to be anonymous said:
They're still people who are married from Africa that have live peacefully in those countries for over 40years.
How did they manage to achieve that? It's because they agree to respect themselves and live out the essence of marriage. Marriage is not a war, it is just hardwork done together in love to raise future generations.
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Those who live at peace here but go there to separate, their senses have been used. I wish people would understand the essence of marriage. It is not sex, beauty or enjoyment. It's hard work done with Love, endurance and peace. No gain in violence, life is only but once.
A lawyer said:
Am a lawyer who live in america. They don't give women "too much power". Na mostly immigrant and men when no know themselves they allow women play them for abroad.
As for the countries you just mention, there is no where in their law or constitution that says women has more power or right over men. If there is any, pls show me. Imagine a man buying a house with his wife name, just because his own credit is bad.
When there is wahala burst it becomes a problem to retrieve and you blame the country for it? Yes just like children, women and other vulnerable groups have protection from abuse, but it doesn't mean if they the women abuse you they won't go in for it. So know yourself, know the law.
Another user tried to balance things up by stating:
Actually they don't give women more powers than men. It's just that oyibo people allow people to live foolish lives. No thanks their social services and NGOs that want to remain relevant. Black women tend to exploit this opportunity more than men.
For example, if the man chooses to fool around while the woman works and the man claims abuse, the government will still listen to him. The issue is that men easily let go. On the other hand, women can drag men at any slightest opportunity even in Nigeria.
Jboy wrote:
This is TRUE!... not all women thought will abuse that power to the same extent... BUT ALL (100%) women will abuse it to an extent!... women are not mentally designed by God/Nature to handle the power they are given in these countries!...
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citizens of those countries (men and women) may have grown into that culture... hence, the way they react or live with some policies is different from the way others, especially African men and women will react to it!... if you EVER go to these countries together as a couple, GO AND LIVE THERE WITH YOUR CULTURE!!!... that is the only way to enjoy there!... however, women are REBELLIOUS in nature!... give them a little power and see their rebellious nature manifest to the FULLEST!... women are easily influenced by the western culture than men....
women easily feel inferior when they are not doing what majority are doing!... women easily lose focus than men!... this is purely natural!... why do we have many women today into runs and hookup?...the environment influences a woman more than a man!...
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they want to wear wig like May, they want a Vuitton bag like Theresa, they want slay like Casandra.... they want to command their husband like Margaret... they want to divorce like Thatcher... they want this they want that.... I DO NOT ADVISE ANY MAN TO RELOCATE to western countries their his wife, is he still wants to maintain a family!...
by African standard, which is closer to God's standard, a family in western countries IS NOT a family!!... everybody in the family has a DANGEROUS AUTHORITY given to them by the society!... your son may come back from school to say he is now a girl... your daughter may come back to say she is now a boy... your wife can wake up to throw you out from a house you bought with your money!...
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any society that removes the authority that God/Nature has given a man to exercise, control, and head a family CANNOT NEVER raise a NORMAL FAMILY!!... this is what is obtainable in western countries!... they are raising fanatics not family!... the western countries know that their family system is a mess!!... they are in a MESS family-wise!...
they won't tell you that!... as an African man, you cannot discharge any fatherly or husband role in a western countries... if you can, DON'T raise a family in a western country!... my candid advice!.
Some other person said:
You are right, our men let go easily and sucks it in. But most our women easily want to call police in the slightest provocation and that's the end of the marriage.
Because the duty of their police is to separate the husband and wife to leave differently once there is claim of alleged violence, be it true or false. Bacause if they don't do that, if one spouse kill the other, na yawa for their hand. Sadly their family system is mess and not something to emulate.
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That's why the Indians and others maintain stable family when they go abroad, but our nigerias has no cultural identity, they want to be white morethan the white. They want to take advantage of the system. By the time they realize their error they are already single mothers looking for smaller boys to nack them.
Another person commented:
Very, very true. Especially Ghanaian women. Many people do not know most tribes in Ghana are MATRILINEAL. This means when a woman gives birth, even in her husband's house, the child is born to the woman and her extended family and NOT the man, as it obtains with nearly all tribes in Nigeria and elsewhere in Africa.
That's why it was "cool" for many Ghanaians to embrace Jerry Rawlings as their leader for many, many years, even though his father was a white man from Scotland, while his mother was a black, Ghanaian woman.
Imagine such a woman from Ghana getting to the US and fraternizing with your Nigerian wife, especially as close friends! That was what happened to me here in the US.
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By the time I knew what was going on, after about 14 years of their friendship here, this woman from Ghana had even developed a bisexual / sexual relationship with my Muslim, Asalatu-going wife, along with many other females in their "circle of female friends", mostly from Ghana, Liberia, etc.! Believe it!! I know I couldn't when I eventually found out, just prior to my divorce from my wife here in the US.
Years after the divorce I still know the very negative relationship I have with my ex-wife (she has done her best since our divorce here close to 10 years ago to turn our children against me, especially the eldest who I also know now indulges in bisexual relationships like her mother) continues to be "engineered" by her hardened female friends here in the US, many of them BISEXUAL, even as they live with their male husbands.
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All because America and a woman from MATRILINEAL (essentially allowing them to create and develop attitudes like men) Ghana created the enabling environment and impetus.
LIB
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